Quality, not necessarily in relation to technique or the expected result, but to the «journey». This is a key factor in the longevity of a couple's sex life over time.
Bodies change, people differ in how they perceive their needs, and this can lead to saturation and inevitably to abstinence. When we realize that orgasm is not an end in itself and that vaginal penetration is not the only route, we will have added safeguards to stay attached to the chariot of sexual intercourse.
Sexual education, while lagging behind, is not as good as it should be. the need for tenderness can be the driver for a reboot. As, as scientist Tania Batalama tells us, «a relationship can survive without sex, but never without tenderness.».
So in order to have good sex and maintain interest for life, touching at the communication level is enough. This will allow us to expand on a regular basis the scope to constantly discover new aspects of ourselves but also of our partner, will annihilate the superficial stereotypes of pornography and redefine sex as a journey rather than a destination.
Η Tania Batalama it is Psychologist, specializing in sexology and the relationship counseling, based in Thessaloniki. You can visit her professional website at http://www.sex-therapy.gr/, through which you can contact her either by phone or email and make an appointment for any issue that concerns you.
You can also visit her YouTube channel at the following address: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCho1jHpyFIygjNAvh5COeTQ/. There, you will find a plethora of video posts that she uploads herself and will now share with Kythera.News on a weekly basis.
